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FINAL SCRIPT
OPEN:
LIFE IS CHANGING AND WE ALL FEEL THE PRESSURE.
IN THE OLD DAYS, MEN WERE THE BREADWINNERS. WOMEN WERE THE HOMEMAKERS.
TWO JOBS, TWO PEOPLE, THEY MANAGED.
FAST FORWARD. MILLIONS OF WOMEN JOIN THE WORK FORCE.
OVERLOAD. THE FAMILY CANT KEEP UP. E-MAIL, THE CELL PHONE.
WERE OUT OF CONTROL.
WHAT CAN WE DO ABOUT IT?
JUGGLING WORK AND FAMILY WITH HEDRICK SMITH.
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STANDUP:
HELLO, IM HEDRICK SMITH.
WE ALL LIKE THE BENEFITS OF THE NEW ECONOMY, BUT ITS TAKING
A TOLL. MAKING A LIVING HAS GOTTEN OUT OF SYNC WITH MAKING A FAMILY
AND HAVING A LIFE. THE HARDER WE WORK, THE RICHER WE GET, BUT THE
POORER WE FEEL IN OUR PERSONAL LIVES.
THE 60 MILLION WORKING PARENTS WITH CHILDREN UNDER 18 FEEL ESPECIALLY
SQUEEZED BY WORK. FAMILY TIME FOR THE AVERAGE WORKING COUPLE HAS
SHRUNK BY 22 HOURS A WEEK SINCE 1970.
SO EVERY DAY PEOPLE HAVE TO MAKE AGONIZING CHOICES BETWEEN
GETTING AHEAD AND GETTING TO SHARE THE JOY OF RAISING THEIR CHILDREN
BETWEEN BEING ON THE TEAM AND BEING THERE TO CARE FOR THEIR AGING
PARENTS.
BUT IS THERE ANYTHING WE CAN DO ABOUT IT? THE ANSWER IS YES.
YOURE ABOUT TO SEE PROGRESSIVE COMPANIES AND UNIONS TAKING
INNOVATIVE STEPS
DEALING WITH PIECES OF THE PROBLEM. BUT EXPERTS
SAY IT WILL TAKE FAR LARGER SOCIAL ACTION, EVEN RETHINKING HOW WE
ORGANIZE WORK
TO PROPERLY PROTECT THE AMERICAN FAMILY.
BUT FIRST, HOW ARE THINGS GOING AT THE GRASS ROOTS?
Exterior Charlotte Gattenbys house
Title: HOME ALONE
Charlotte Gattenby on computer at work
NARR: FOR MANY PARENTS
ESPECIALLY
SINGLE MOTHERS LIKE CHARLOTTE GATTENBY, A MANAGER FOR HEWLETT-PACKARD
IN CALIFORNIA, THE MOST STRESSFUL TIME OF DAY IS THE LONG HOURS
FROM 3 TO 6 EACH AFTERNOON.
Andrea Gattenby calls her mom, Charlotte Gattenby at work- Intercut
Charlotte Gattenbys phone call with Andrea Gattenby.
Charlotte Gattenby: Hello?
Andrea Gattenby: Hi Mom.
Charlotte Gattenby: Hey sweetie,
where you been?
Andrea Gattenby: The bus was late.
NARR: LIKE ALMOST 7 MILLION KIDS UNDER
14, CHARLOTTES KIDS ARE LATCHKEY KIDS.
Charlotte Gattenby: Oh, was it
a little bit late?
Hedrick Smith in the kitchen talking to Andrea Gattenby
HEDRICK SMITH: And do you have a deal
when you get home youre supposed to call?
ANDREA GATTENBY: Yeah.
HEDRICK SMITH: What do you say? Whats
the deal?
ANDREA GATTENBY: I say Im home
and that Im safe and we hang up.
Charlotte Gattenby at office, hangs up phone
Charlotte Gattenby: Bye-bye.
NARR: TO EASE HER WORRIES AND TO SAFEGUARD
HER CHILDREN WHILE THEYRE HOME ALONE, CHARLOTTE INSISTS ON
STRICT RULES.
Andrea Gattenby playing piano
CHARLOTTE GATTENBY: When Im not
home I dont want them outside. I do not believe in the concept
of "hanging" with your friends.
Tony Gattenby playing video game in his room
CHARLOTTE GATTENBY: Their friends cannot
visit them. The house is for those two only.
Children preparing dinner
NARR: THE FAMILY LIVES IN SOUTH SAN
JOSE, A WORKING CLASS NEIGHBORHOOD WHERE TONY AND ANDREA NEED TO
BECOME INDEPENDENT AND SELF SUFFICIENT, LIKE THEIR MOM.
THE
CHILDREN ARE NORMALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR DINNER THREE NIGHTS A WEEK.
CHARLOTTE GATTENBY: I know that they
can take care of themselves. They're very efficient children. They're
very responsible. But, I still worry. And I do feel guilty about
them being alone. I think it's probably just the natural reaction,
as most parents would
I feel like I should be with my kids
more.
Charlotte Gattenbys car pulls into driveway.
NARR: BEING THERE FOR HER CHILDREN
IS A CHALLENGE.
Children preparing food. Charlotte Gattenby gets out of car, walks
in house Intercut with children cooking
Charlotte Gattenby: Hey guys
Charlotte Gattenby comes in and kids run and hug her.
Charlotte Gattenby: Hey, I love
you
In the kitchen Hedrick Smith talks to kids
HEDRICK SMITH: How do you tell when
shes had a hard day?
TONY GATTENBY: Shes usually hunched
over and her hair looks like a mess.
HEDRICK SMITH: Her hair is wild?
TONY GATTENBY: Its messed up.
HEDRICK SMITH: How do you tell?
ANDREA GATTENBY: Whenever she comes
in through the door and drops her com- everything that she has in
her hands on the floor.
HEDRICK SMITH: And then what?
ANDREA GATTENBY: And then, asks for
a tall glass of water and goes to her room.
HEDRICK SMITH: Lies down?
ANDREA GATTENBY: Mmm hmm.
HEDRICK SMITH: Yeah?
CHARLOTTE GATTENBY: (Chuckling) And
yeah, there are times I come in, I just park the bags and flop on
the couch, become a couch potato and stay comatose for an hour.
Hedrick Smith talks to Andrea in the kitchen
HEDRICK SMITH: If you had one wish
for your mom, if you could give her anything, what would it be?
ANDREA GATTENBY: Id give her enough
money that she wouldnt have to work.
HEDRICK SMITH: So she could do what?
ANDREA GATTENBY: Play with me.
Dinnertime sound up
Charlotte Gattenby: Great job
guys.
NARR: QUITTING WORK TO PLAY MAY BE
EVERY CHILDS FANTASY
PERHAPS EVERY PARENTS, AS
WELL. TONIGHT, CHARLOTTE WAS HOPING TO HAVE AT LEAST ONE EVENING
TO PLAY...INSTEAD, AFTER A FULL DAY AT THE OFFICE AS OFTEN HAPPENS
Charlotte Gattenby on the phone at home, daughter Andrea Gattenby
lying by her side.
Charlotte Gattenby: And Ive
got a question, just a quick one, for me
NARR: HER NIGHT IS INTERRUPTED BY WORK.
Charlotte Gattenby: When Joanie
said she had six calls, did she push it back to the Response Center
or did she attempt to do a warm transfer?
NARR: AND THE PHONE CALLS KEEP COMING
UNTIL 4 A.M.
Charlotte Gattenby: Okay, thanks
ELLEN GALINSKY: In every study we do,
how we work turns out to be the most important thing that affects
us, our health, our mood, our energy. What were like when
we come home at the end of the day, how we relate to our kids, how
we relate to our husbands, our wives, our partners, how we relate
to our own parents, or our friends. So its, so how we work
is just at the core of the issues that we face today.
Michael Lancaster puts on his clothes at work
Title: SINGLE DAD
DOUBLE DUTY
Michael Lancaster at work
NARR: WALK INTO ANY HOSPITAL FOR SURGERY
AND YOU DEPEND ON LOTS OF PEOPLE WORKING BEHIND THE SCENES
PEOPLE
LIKE 46-YEAR-OLD MICHAEL LANCASTER. MICHAEL HAS AN ESSENTIAL JOB.
Michael Lancaster: You need an
immobilizer?
Nurse: Can you get me a large,
shoulder immobilizer?
Michael Lancaster: Okay, so you
got this sling, now you need an immobilizer?
NARR: HE PROVIDES VITAL SUPPLIES TO
18 OPERATING ROOMS AT ST. VINCENTS HOSPITAL.
MICHAEL LANCASTER: Make sure tubing
and everything is in the right places where they should be. And
basically running around, going to the pharmacy, going to the blood
bank, constantly just going, going, going.
NARR: HES ON THE MOVE FROM THE
MOMENT HE WALKS IN THE DOOR AND OFTEN WORKS 18-HOUR SHIFTS. BUT
AS HE WORKS, MICHAELS MIND IS ON HIS OTHER ESSENTIAL JOB
HIS FAMILY. HES A SINGLE DAD TRYING TO SUPPORT THREE KIDS
ON $37,000 A YEAR IN NEW YORK CITY.
HEDRICK SMITH: So whats this
here?
MICHAEL LANCASTER: Oh, this is my
my
good luck wallet. It has a picture of my kids, Tamara, Jeanine and
Mylaka. I carry it everywhere. Its always in front for everybody
to see. So um
.
HEDRICK SMITH: Thats your charm.
MICHAEL LANCASTER: Thats my charm,
right. So. Thats why its always there. And thats
it.
Michael Lancaster at home with Mylaka
Michael Lancaster: Cmon
MICHAEL LANCASTER: The greatest joy
in my life is having my kids, thats my life.
Michael Lancaster: So what are
we gonna eat this morning? What are we gonna have for breakfast?
MICHAEL LANCASTER: The greatest frustration
is um, maybe not providing as much as you would like to.
Michael Lancaster and Mylaka Lancaster brushing their teeth
Michael Lancaster: (brushing teeth)
Mmmm, Mmmm
NARR: MICHAEL SHARES CUSTODY FOR TWO
COLLEGE-AGE DAUGHTERS WITH HIS EX-WIFE.
Michael Lancaster: Let me see
you brush them teeth
NARR: HE FEELS A SPECIAL BOND WITH
FOUR-YEAR-OLD MYLAKA. WHEN SHE WAS BORN AT HOME, MICHAEL DID THE
DELIVERY
AND HES BEEN RAISING HER ON HIS OWN EVER SINCE.
Michael Lancaster gets Mylaka Lancaster breakfast
Michael Lancaster: Were
going to have today, Cheerios?
Mylaka Lancaster: Huh?
Michael Lancaster: Want Cheerios
today?
Mylaka Lancaster: Yeah
Michael Lancaster: Okay
MICHAEL LANCASTER: It was really amazing,
Im telling you. It was really something to get into bringing
up a baby by yourself as a
.as a man, as a father.
Mylaka Lancaster: Here we go
Michael Lancaster: Yeah, here
we go
MICHAEL LANCASTER: Getting up every
two hours, feeding, changing the diapers. Ive done the whole
nine yards.
Michael Lancaster: There you
go. Go ahead. Eating all your cereal?
NARR: FOR MICHAEL, JUGGLING TIME AND
MONEY IS A NEVER-ENDING STRUGGLE
Michael Lancaster: Youre
not finishing your cereal.
Mylaka Lancaster: (inaudible)
Michael Lancaster: Youre
gonna be big and strong arent you? Cmere
MICHAEL LANCASTER: Its rough,
you know, cause you know, you have rent, you have your utilities,
you have your other bills that you have to pay. And its very
rough so I basically live check to check.
NARR: DAYCARE FOR MYLAKA ALONE COSTS
ALMOST 8 THOUSAND DOLLARS A YEAR
THATS NEARLY ONE THIRD
OF MICHAELS TAKE HOME PAY.
Michael Lancaster: Sit down over
here
Mylaka Lancaster: No
Michael Lancaster: Sit down over
here. Stop so I can finish your hair
Michael Lancaster: No, cmon.
Okay, Oh Boy! (Mylaka giggling)
NARR: TO MAKE EXTRA MONEY, HE WORKS
ALL THE OVERTIME HE CAN
AND HE GETS SOME PUBLIC ASSISTANCE
WHAT HE DREADS IS BEING FORCED INTO TAKING A SECOND JOB.
MICHAEL LANCASTER: If I took a second
job, it would separate me and Mylaka, okay. It would definitely
because the bond that we have now its really good. And being
Im her
.her only parent basically, you know, its,
its gonna be rough so I, I see myself that if I took a second
job, thats gonna be less time for us, okay.
Mylaka Lancaster: We got it!
Michael Lancaster: Okay, Were
gonna go out.
Mylaka Lancaster: Okay, cmon!
Michael Lancaster: Hey. Turn the
bathroom light off.
ROBERT REICH: We talk about work and
family and the struggle to balance or to blend work and family as
if everybody was in the same boat, and everybodys not in the
same boat. If you are a high paid professional on a fast track,
uh, your problem is that your job doesnt have boundaries,
its unpredictable, youre gonna be, uh, demanded at many
hours...but you have the money to cope with that....But if you are
a blue collar or pink collar worker... youre going to be working
overtime. Youre going to be making as much as you possibly
can to make ends meet. You cant sub-contract to high quality
services, you cant get great childcare, great daycare.
Gloria Eroglu at work in the lab
Title: SPLIT SHIFTS
SPLIT PARENTING
NARR: GLORIA EROGLU IS A HIGH-END LAB
TECHNICIAN AT COLUMBIA PRESBYTERIAN HOSPITAL IN NEW YORK. SHE LOVES
HER JOB ANALYZING PRENATAL BLOOD TESTS.
GLORIA EROGLU: Its challenging.
Its something that you have to keep up with it. You have to
con-, you know, constantly read and be updated with all the, the
new information that comes out. I mean were talking DNA level,
were talking science that every day there is a new thing with
it.
NARR: THE SCIENCE IS EXCITING
.
BUT HER FULL TIME JOB PLUS A 90-MINUTE COMMUTE TWICE A DAY PUTS
GLORIA IN A TIME BIND SHE NEVER HAS ENOUGH HOURS WITH HER
FAMILY
ESPECIALLY SINCE SHE AND HER HUSBAND DECIDED TO WORK
SPLIT SHIFTS.
GLORIA EROGLU: We chose for my husband
to work overnight and for me to work during the day so that we can
keep track of our children, basically twenty four hours a day, seven
days a week.
HEDRICK SMITH: Whats more stressful
for you, the trip coming to work in the morning or going home at
night?
GLORIA EROGLU: I feel the tension building
more so on the way home.
Gloria Eroglu walking to subway in hospital, in snow, in station
GLORIA EROGLU: What I am thinking about
is, did I take the meat out? Do I have enough potatoes? Are my kids
okay, is my husband okay?
NARR: GLORIA IS ALWAYS IN A RUSH BECAUSE
THE FAMILY HAS JUST ONE PRECIOUS HOUR TOGETHER AFTER SHE GETS HOME
AND
BEFORE HER HUSBAND LEAVES FOR HIS JOB.
Gloria Eroglu on train, on platform to change train, calling from
subway payphone
GLORIA EROGLU: Everything has to be
orchestrated, everything has to be programmed and it has to be worked
out really well. I know that if I miss a train, Im gonna have
to be catching the next train which is gonna be ten, fifteen minutes
later. If I get off at 59th Street I will be able to take the B
which will take me to the express and then if I take the express
Ill get home 10 minutes earlier. Sometimes when there are
delays I get a payphone, and I call him and I tell him were
having delays. I feel exhausted. I feel like I need to take a deep
breath before I start the day and before I start my second job,
which is home.
Gloria Eroglu meets the family at the car.
NARR: EVEN THE SHORT RIDE HOME FROM
THE SUBWAY IS A TIME FOR CRAMMING IN FAMILY TOGETHERNESS.
Eroglu family in car
Gloria Eroglu: Did you have a
test today, Ismail?
Ismail Eroglu: No, tomorrow.
Gloria Eroglu: Tomorrow
Ismail Eroglu: Math Test
Gloria Eroglu: You have a math
test?
Serafettin Eroglu: Theres
one homework that you didnt do yet, right Ismail?
Seref Eroglu: I did all my homework
Ismail Eroglu: I did all my homework,
but it, but
Serafettin Eroglu: We have check
it?
Gloria Eroglu: Yeah, we have to
go over it, right?
Family makes dinner in kitchen, Seref Eroglu sets the table
NARR: SHEREF QUIT HIS JOB AS AN OFFICE
MANAGER AND NOW DRIVES LIMOUSINES OVERNIGHT.
HE SACRIFICED
MONEY AND CAREER SO THE TWO BOYS WILL FEEL THE STABILITY OF ALWAYS
HAVING A PARENT AROUND.
SERAFETTIN EROGLU: Ever since they
were little kids, they have been taken out of their beds early in
the morning, rushed to daycare, rushed to babysitters and rushed
to school so.
SEREF EROGLU: One day she - hes
picking me up and then the other day shes picking me up. So
I really dont know who is going to come pick me up next.
Serafettin Eroglu: I dont
know how much work theres going to be out there today.
Gloria Eroglu: Oh, you think its
going to be a little slow?
NARR: WORKING DIFFERENT SHIFTS IS HARD
ON GLORIA AND SHEREF. HE DRIVES THE LIMO UNTIL 7 or 8 A.M., GETS
HOME, AND THEN SHES OFF TO HER LAB.
Ismail Eroglu: Can I help?
NARR: ITS A CONSTANT PUSH. BUT
THEY FEEL THE CHILDREN BENEFIT
Ismail Eroglu: What should I
do?
Family eats dinner
GLORIA EROGLU: We sit down, we have
dinner, he goes upstairs, takes a shower and goes out to work.
Kids hug Serafettin Eroglu goodbye
Gloria Eroglu: Ready to go?
Serafettin Eroglu: Yup
Gloria Eroglu: Okay, Seref, daddys
leaving
Seref Eroglu: Daddys leaving!
Ismail Eroglu: I going, wherever
you go, I go
Serafettin Eroglu: No, you stay
home, go to sleep
Seref Eroglu: Mommy, is daddy
leaving now?
Gloria Eroglu: Yeah
GLORIA EROGLU: We kiss goodbye, good
luck, be careful. The kids love him, hug him. I dont know,
sometimes it feels like its the last day because were
like, so apart um, and yet so close that we feel so much going when,
when hes leaving.
Gloria Eroglu: Alright, good
luck alright.
Serafettin Eroglu: Thanks, bye
Gloria Eroglu: Alright, give us
a call later
JOAN WILLIAMS: Many different people,
men as well as women in this country are really caught between two
very closely held ideals. One is the ideal worker, the way we define
the responsible committed worker, and the other is the way we define
the responsible committed um, parent or family member. And they
dont feel that they can put these things, two things together
in their own lives. And so they really feel a clash, um, between
these two ideals.
HEDRICK SMITH: How did we get into
this fix? Because its ob-, its obviously not happening
just to a few people, but its universal, or nearly universal.
JOAN WILLIAMS: Thats such an
important point. This is not a matter of individual choice, individual
priorities, this is a structural problem. Uh, if you think about
the ideal worker defined as someone who works 50, 60 hours a week,
that simply clashes with our sense of what children need, which
is time with their parents. Uh, our sense of what someone needs
if their mother is dying.
Old video of men from farms to factories
NARR: THE WORLD WASNT ALWAYS
SO CONFLICTED. ONCE UPON A TIME THERE WAS A CLEAR DIVISION OF LABOR...THE
STRUCTURE OF WORK IN AMERICA GOT SHAPED IN THE FIRST HALF OF THE
20TH CENTURY WHEN MILLIONS OF MEN STREAMED OFF FARMS
INTO FACTORIES.
...SO MEN BECAME THE BREADWINNERS, AVAILABLE TO WORK AS MANY HOURS
AS THE JOB DEMANDED. ...ALL BUT A TINY MINORITY OF WOMEN STAYED
AT HOME, TAKING CARE OF THE CHILDREN AND THE HOUSEHOLD NEEDS.
THAT
WAS THE PATTERN, WHICH BECAME OUR SYSTEM FOR ORGANIZING WORK
Postwar cars, houses, men at work, families at home
NARR: IN THE GOLDEN ERA OF POSTWAR
PROSPERITY, THE SYSTEM HELD.
THE AMERICAN ECONOMY WAS BOOMING
AND MEN COULD SUPPORT THEIR FAMILIES BECAUSE OF RISING PRODUCTIVITY
AND RISING INCOMES. BUT THERE WERE FORCES AT WORK QUIETLY RESHAPING
THE ROLES OF WOMEN AND THE FUTURE OF THE AMERICAN FAMILY.
EILEEN APPELBAUM: One was the rising
educational levels of women themselves so that their aspirations
changed. The second was the experience of World War II in which
many women held non-traditional jobs while the men were at work
and that changed their views of what women could do.
Women marching, at work in factories, offices
NARR: BY THE 1960S, WOMEN WERE DEMANDING
EQUAL OPPORTUNITY TO MEN.
STAYING HOME TO MAKE THINGS FOR
THE FAMILY, NO LONGER MADE SENSE BECAUSE MASS PRODUCTION COULD TURN
OUT CLOTHES, FOOD, AND APPLIANCES FAR MORE CHEAPLY
.FINALLY,
BY 1973, WORK FOR WOMEN HAD BECOME A NECESSITY. THE POST-WAR ECONOMIC
BOOM CAME TO A SCREECHING HALT...AND INFLATION WAS EATING AWAY THE
PURCHASING POWER OF MENS WAGES
SO THAT ONE PAYCHECK WAS
NO LONGER ENOUGH.
AND MILLIONS OF HOUSEWIVES HAD TO GO TO
WORK. ...THEY TRIED TO DO IT ALL.
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- fry it up in the pan
EILEEN APPELBAUM: In the seventies,
you had this increase in mothers working, many of them in part-time
jobs. And in the eighties, what happened is that the hours that
these mothers were working began to increase. And over the next
two decades, the hours of work put in by married couple families
with children increased by 600 hours a year.
STANDUP:
AND THATS THE ROOT OF THE PROBLEM...ALL THOSE HOURS AT WORK
STEALING PRECIOUS TIME FROM THE FAMILY.
TODAY ROUGHLY TWO-THIRDS OF MARRIED COUPLES WITH CHILDREN UNDER
EIGHTEEN BOTH WORK...AND SO DO SEVENTY-FIVE PERCENT OF SINGLE PARENTS.
SO IN MOST FAMILIES, THERES NO LONGER A FULLTIME WIFE TAKING
CARE OF THE HOME.
THESE CHANGING DEMOGRAPHICS KEEP SHARPENING THE TENSIONS BETWEEN
WORK AND FAMILY. TAKE THE LEGAL PROFESSION, FOR EXAMPLE. HALF OF
TODAYS LAW SCHOOL GRADUATES ARE WOMEN.
SO LETS SEE WHAT BIG LAW FIRMS IN A CITY LIKE BOSTON DEMAND...
AND HOW YOUNG ATTORNEYS RESPOND.
Claire Smiths backyard - Claire Smith plays with kids
Claire Smith: One, two three,
ready or not, here I come! Where could Reid be? Ahhh! (laughter)
I got you!
NARR: FOR SEVERAL YEARS, CLAIRE SMITH
EXCELLED AS A FAST-RISING YOUNG LAWER AT GOODWIN PROCTER, ONE OF
BOSTONS TOP LAW FIRMS. AS A LITIGATOR IN HIGH PROFILE CASES,
CLAIRE WAS ON HER WAY TO HAVING IT ALL.
CLAIRE SMITH: I always thought during
my whole pregnancy well I can be great. I can be a great
lawyer and I can be a great mom.
NARR: THAT CHANGED AFTER CLAIRES
FIRST CHILD, MOLLIE WAS BORN.
Claire Smith plays in backyard with Mollie Smith and Reid Smith
Claire Smith: Ready, go! Go!
CLAIRE SMITH: I dont think you
can ever prepare yourself for what its like until you
.you
have the child. And, after she was born I thought, well this is
gonna be a little trickier than I thought. I dont know if
I can do five days a week. I might be more comfortable with four.
NARR: BUT A FOUR DAY WORK-WEEK STILL
TURNED OUT TO BE LIKE FULL TIME.
CLAIRE SMITH: I would leave here a
quarter of seven before my daughter was awake and get into the office
around seven thirty and I was never out of there really before six
thirty or seven. And then I
.I would say nine out of ten Fridays
did work from home.
Newspaper articles about Claire Smiths cases
NARR: WHATS MORE, CLAIRE WAS
NO LONGER A RISING STAR, GETTING PLUM ASSIGNMENTS THAT CAUSED A
SPLASH IN THE MEDIA.
CLAIRE SMITH: I was given two assignments
which really sort-of led to my decision to stay home full-time.
One was a very time consuming assignment in terms of commute, being
out of the office three days a week at a client, not a lot of face
time in the firm. The other assignment was physically impossible
to do in the time period it was supposed to be done.
HEDRICK SMITH: Did you feel it was a
set-up? Theres no way I can do this?
CLAIRE SMITH: At the time it did, yes.
I thought theres no way I can succeed so yes, I think there
was a part of me that thought, I fee--- that, that felt as if I
was being set up to fail. But it was the reaction that I received
when I said, Im leaving to stay home, that I think was what
really surprised me, when it came time to leave.
HEDRICK SMITH: And what happened?
CLAIRE SMITH: I went in and said Ive
made a decision that has been very difficult for me but I dont
feel like Im doing a good job as a lawyer or a good job as
a mother and Ive decided to stay home full-time with my daughter.
And um, I was told that, you know, with the signals that Id
been giving, I guess, with coming back part-time and extending my
maternity leave that at some point they sort of expected me to stay
home full-time.
Claire Smith plays with children in sandbox
Claire Smith: Heres a shovel
NARR: IN FRUSTRATION CLAIRE QUIT HER
$100,000 A YEAR JOB. NOW SHES AT HOME FULL TIME WITH MOLLIE
AND REID
AND SHE CAN AFFORD TO BE, BECAUSE HER HUSBAND IS
ON THE PARTNERSHIP TRACK AT ANOTHER BIG BOSTON LAW FIRM.
Claire Smith in kitchen with kids
Claire Smith: Time for lunch.
You know what, Let me tell you something. Its past your lunchtime
and I bet youre hungry without even knowing it.
Mollie Smith: Im not hungry.
NARR: SHES AN IDEAL MOM, NURTURING
AND PATIENT
Mollie Smith: Im not hungry
NARR: ... ADEPT AT RIDING THROUGH HER
CHILDRENS MOODS.
Claire Smith: You want peanut
butter and jelly. And maybe a slice of apple?
Mollie Smith: Yeah (laughs)
Claire Smith: Okay, sounds good.
Mollie Smith: Yeah.
Claire Smith: Okay
HEDRICK SMITH: So as youre making
peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, is there a part of you that
sorta aches and feels unfulfilled?
CLAIRE SMITH: Absolutely, absolutely.
Especially because I had such an amazing experience in law school
and I had such an amazing experience my first three years in the
workforce. I was doing what I loved doing.
BBA Report, Street traffic, Goodwin Procter lobby
NARR: SUCH FEELINGS OF BEING SHUNTED
ASIDE AND PASSED OVER ARE SO PERVASIVE THAT THE BOSTON BAR ASSOCIATION
DID A STUDY.
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NARR
ITS TASK FORCE FOUND THAT
ALMOST AS MANY WOMEN ENTER PRIVATE FIRMS AS MEN, BUT ALMOST HALF
LEAVE WITHIN THREE YEARS AND PART TIME IS RARELY PRACTICAL.
TASK
FORCE DIRECTOR NANCER BALLARD.
NANCER BALLARD: Almost every firm offers
part-time work as a policy. So, theoretically, it's available. The
reason that you see such low numbers both for women and virtually
nonexistent for men -- other than health reasons -- is because it
is seen as having a stigma. Um, and it -- and it, in fact, does
have a stigma -- that people see it as a bar to advancement, that
you won't be put on high-profile cases, or get exciting work.
NARR: IN LARGE PART, SAYS NANCER BALLARD,
ITS BECAUSE SUCCESS IN THE BIG FIRMS EQUALS HIGH BILLABLE
HOURS THE NUMBER OF HOURS A LAWYER DIRECTLY CHARGES
CLIENTS.
NANCER BALLARD: The number of hours
per week, per year on an ongoing, multiple-year basis that lawyers
put in -- particularly in large firms and medium-large firms is
very intense. It can be 50, 60, 65 hours-plus.
HEDRICK SMITH: Are there actually charts
that are passed around that show the number of billable hours that
the different partners and different associates have?
NANCER BALLARD: Oh, yes.
HEDRICK SMITH: So everybody can see
where you stand, what your batting average is for number of hours?
NANCER BALLARD: That's a good analogy
to it. It is like a batting average.
HEDRICK SMITH: So, it's a very important
yardstick that's in everybody's face every week, every month?
NANCER BALLARD: Right. And it's one
that can be reduced to something you can see in a flash, rather
than intangible measures.
Law firm associates working in library
NARR: THAT DIRECTLY CLASHES WITH THE
CHANGING DEMOGRAPHICS OF THE LAW - WOMEN AND MEN GRADUATING FROM
LAW SCHOOLS IN EQUAL NUMBERS...AND STARTING FAMILIES EARLIER.
NANCER BALLARD: So you have two things
which are kind of on a collision course....You have more women in
the workplace...and a desire...that both parents are gonna be involved
in, in child rearing and child care and, later, elder care...And
at the same time you have expectations within the legal profession...that
to advance in your career,...youre gonna work more and more
and more hours.
NARR: FOR A SMALL MINORITY LIKE MARGARET
CROCKETT, PART TIME WORKS. CROCKETT CUT BACK TO A FOUR DAY WORK
WEEK 11 YEARS AGO, AFTER HER FIRST CHILD WAS BORN.
Margaret Crockett answers phone in her office
Margaret Crockett: Margaret Crockett
MARGARET CROCKETT: My kids are better
off with me having this career. And, as long as Im able to
be there in the morning getting everybody on the bus and be home
two afternoons a week after school and weekends, I feel like it
works.
Margaret Crockett: Is he there
right now?
NARR: IT WORKS BECAUSE MARGARETS
FIELD IS BANKING REGULATION, WHICH MORE EASILY ACCOMMODATES PART
TIME HOURS.
Regina Pisa walks into partners office
Regina Pisa: Hey Richard
NARR: REGINA PISA IS HEAD OF GOODWIN
PROCTER. SHE SUPPORTS PART-TIME IN PRINCIPLE, BUT HER BOTTOM LINE
IS SATISFYING THE CLIENT.
REGINA PISA: The issue is how to make
part-time work, how to be responsive to clients, and how to do it
in a way, um, that allows people flexibility, um, to come and go
on a truncated schedule -- on a shortened schedule.
MARGARET CROCKETT: When there is a really
important client deadline, even a part-time lawyer has to be available.
Treadmills, traffic, people on street, on phone, computers, factory
NARR: THE ACCELERATED TEMPO OF BUSINESS
TODAY HAS INTENSIFIED THE COMPETITIVE PRESSURE ON LAWYERS TO BE
AVAILABLE AROUND THE CLOCK AND WORK MANY MORE HOURS THAN 20 YEARS
AGO.
REGINA PISA: Industry today is at a
whole different plateau than its ever been before. Its
moving very fast. Technology has sped up the rate at which we conduct
business in this country. Fast turnaround, speedy response, speed
to market I think those are all things that industry faces.
And so long as our clients have issues that need responses, we have
to be ready to provide them with help.
NARR: IN THIS COMPETITIVE ENVIRONMENT,
GOODWIN PROCTOR PRIZES HARD DRIVING YOUNG ATTORNEYS LIKE RAJEEV
BALKRISHNA.
Rajeev Balakrishna in his office
RAJEEV BALAKRISHNA: I mean after all,
were in a service industry. Were, you know, if
if
we dont get the job done, then somebodys gonna go next
door and
.and get it done from them.
Rajeev Balakrishna on the phone in his office
NARR: RAJEEV REGULARLY PUTS IN OVER
50 HOURS A WEEK ... AND FOR THAT HE MAKES OVER $200,000 A YEAR.
RAJEEV BALAKRISHNA: You know, I think
I bill out at over three hundred bucks an hour and nobodys
gonna pay that kind of money and want to hear an answer that, Ill
get it done when I want to get it done.
Boston skyline at night
Rajeev Balakrishna on the phone
Rajeev Balakrishna: Hi Jay, its
Rajeev calling
NARR: AND SO RAJEEV BURNS THE MIDNIGHT
OIL.
RAJEEV BALAKRISHNA: You could go several
days with, without seeing your kid because the kidll be asleep
before you get home and youre leaving before he wakes up.
It, and thats hard, thats very hard. And its very
hard on the marriage, its very hard on the family, its
hard on everybody involved.
Rajeev Balakrishna at firm lunch
NARR: IT MAY BE HARD, BUT ASPIRING
YOUNG LAWYERS TAKE PRIDE IN BRAGGING ABOUT THEIR PERIODIC ALL-NIGHTERS
FOR THE LAW FIRM.
RAJEEV BALAKRISHNA: You know, when
things happen that are out of the ordinary, that are just, you know,
just something thats just wow, this is crazy, you really want
to share it with other people
David Seibel at lunch table
David Seibel: Congratulations,
is this your first or second?
RAJEEV BALAKRISHNA: People will say
stuff like uh, it was a long night but, you know, at 4 in the morning,
I was able to like, convince this guy, we won it, signed up the
merger agreement at five thirty; we announced it to the market just
before it opened. ...Yeah, you know, there is, there is definitely
a bit of that war story bravado mentality.
Rajeev Balakrishna exits train
NARR: RAJEEV CAN GO FULL BORE ON HIS
CAREER
Rachna Balakrishna feeds Rohan Balakrishna in backyard,
Rachna Balakrishna: Good boy
NARR: BECAUSE HIS WIFE RACHNA MANAGES
THE HOME AND FAMILY.
Rachna Balakrishna: Yeees
Rachna Balakrishna and Rohan Balakrishna play on swings at playground
NARR: SHE FITS THE BOSTON BAR ASSOCIATIONS
PROFILE OF THE TYPICAL FEMALE ATTORNEY. BEFORE STARTING A FAMILY,
SHE CONSIDERED TRYING PART-TIME AT HER LAW FIRM, NUTTER, McCLENNEN
& FISH.
RACHNA BALAKRISHNA: There were other
women working there part-time after they came back from maternity
leave. But what I saw was that part-time was really uh, more like
a full-time job.
Rachna Balakrishna at her desk
NARR: SO RACHNA SHIFTED HER LEGAL CAREER
OVER TO MANULIFE FINANCIAL, WHERE PART TIME REALLY MEANS PART TIME.
RACHNA BALAKRISHNA: At most big law
firms there is a sense that if youre not working the full
hours that youre expected to, that youre not fully committed
to your job. Here people know that Im committed to the job
that Im doing, in the position that Im in now.
Rachna Balakrishna going on errands with her son
NARR: RACHNA WORKS THREE DAYS A WEEK,
WHICH ALLOWS HER TO BE WITH HER SON, ROHAN, ... SHOP, ... AND RUN
ERRANDS ON HER OFF DAYS.
Rachna Balakrishna at the cleaners
Rachna Balakrishna: Just uh,
dropping off today
NARR: SHES FOUND HER WORK-LIFE
BALANCE.
Rajeev Balakrishna and Rachna Balakrishna in kitchen with Rohan
Balakrishna
NARR: BUT HER AMBITIOUS HUSBAND, LIKE
OTHER GENERATION X LAWYERS NOW IN THEIR 30S, IS CHAFING AT THE EXCESSIVE
DEMANDS OF THE JOB.
RAJEEV BALAKRISHNA: Work comes first,
but you know, there are some things where the family has to come
first.
Rajeev Balakrishna giving his son a bath
RAJEEV BALAKRISHNA: When you have a
child at home, it gives you such a big incentive to get your work
done and get home and to really ask yourself whether what you're
doing is necessary to get done that night. Or, whether you can just
put it off until the morning.
Rachna Balakrishna feeding son, Margaret Crockett at her desk,
Claire Smith playing with her children
REGINA PISA: This isn't an issue that's
gonna go away, because of the number of women coming out of law
schools, because of the competition for talent, because of the need
for people who will stay here over entire careers, because of the
attrition. Um, and I think law firms need to respond to it or else
were not gonna be able to develop and retain the talent were
gonna need, you know, that make the world go round.
HEDRICK SMITH: Youre a lawyer.
We see this story of these lawyers struggling in Boston, but is
this a broader pattern?
JOAN WILLIAMS: Its a broader pattern.
Women lawyers are the canary in the mine on one particularly important
part of the work family issue. And thats the issue of hours,
excessive hours. But its not only women lawyers who are in
that situation. We as a country work the highest levels of overtime
in the industrialized world, more overtime even than Japan.
ANN CRITTENDEN: Well I think the problem
is really the 24/7 economy which is driving people into the ground.
As someone said its one thing to have a capitalist economy.
Its another thing to have a capitalist society. We want the
first but not the second.
HEDRICK SMITH: Meaning?
ANN CRITTENDEN: Meaning we dont
want the demands of unrestrained capitalism to determine our private
lives, we need a space. We need some protection from the insatiable
demands of corporate pressure.
Bumper: Juggling Work and Family with Hedrick Smith
Hi-Tech
High Stress
STANDUP:
LOOKING FOR SOLUTIONS WE OFTEN TURN TO CALIFORNIA AS A SEEDBED OF
SOCIAL CHANGE AND EXPERIMENTATION.
IN THE INFORMATION AGE, SILICON VALLEY, SOUTH OF SAN FRANCISCO,
HAS LONG BEEN SYNONYMOUS WITH INNOVATION.
AND WHILE THE PACE OF WORK IN THE HIGH TECH WORLD IS TYPICALLY
FRENETIC AND RELENTLESSLY COMPETITIVE, THE CALIFORNIA COMPUTER NERDS
HAVE LONG PRACTICED A LOOSER LIFE-STYLE THAN IN MORE TRADITIONAL
INDUSTRIES. SO ITS HARDLY SURPRISING THAT A CALIFORNIA COMPUTER
GIANT LIKE HEWLETT-PACKARD WOULD PIONEER FLEXIBLE WORK ARRANGEMENTS
TO ALLOW ITS HIGH-PRICED TALENT MORE TIME WITH THE FAMILY.
Photo of Bill Hewlett and Dave Packard
NARR: FOR BILL HEWLETT AND DAVE PACKARD,
IT WAS ALWAYS IMPORTANT TO TREAT EMPLOYEES WITH RESPECT AND FLEXIBILITY.
Hedrick Smith and Lew Platt walking up steps into Hewlett-Packard
Labs building
NARR: BUT IT TOOK THE PERSONAL EPIPHANY
OF LEW PLATT, THE NEXT CEO, TO MAKE FAMILY FRIENDLY POLICIES
A
HALLMARK OF THE COMPANY.
LEW PLATT: Well I had a
.I had
a very big wake-up call. Uh, I guess like everybody else I thought
that these were womens issues and, by and large, they were
womens issues because of the role that they were playing in
society at the time.
Black and white still photos of Lew Platt at Hewlett-Packard
NARR: IN THE 1980s, HEWLETT-PACKARD
WAS WHAT PLATT CALLED A WHITE MALE HAVEN. MEN FOCUSED
ON THEIR CAREERS AND LEFT THE CHILD-REARING AND HOUSEKEEPING TO
THEIR WIVES.
BUT FOR RISING STAR LEW PLATT, THAT WORLD WAS
SUDDENLY TURNED UPSIDE DOWN.
LEW PLATT: In, uh, nineteen um, eighty-one,
my wife died and uh, I ended up as a single parent of an eight-year-old
and a ten-year-old. And suddenly uh, I found out firsthand that
these were not womens issues; these were issues of being a
parent.
EMILY DUNCAN: And I think having that
experience early on in HP as a young manager, gave Lew an experience
that when he became the CEO and employees began to ask questions
about work life, express their needs, he could relate to it in a
very special way.
LEW PLATT: The event that certainly
sticks in my mind was a call that I got from the uh, Los Altos Police,
they were at the local hospital with my daughter who had just had
a quite bad accident on her uh, bicycle. I was right in the middle
of what I would have uh, previously considered uh, the most important
meeting of my life, one that I could not leave. But I got up and
left. Uh, you know, it just, frankly there just wasnt any
choice.
PHILIP MIRVIS: Hes faced with
the direct child-care giving responsibility uh, that most CEOs dont
even read about, let alone experience. And then generalizes that
to I can make a difference in an entire company. Thats a very
strong power move by a CEO and its a very genuine caring move
by a father.
NARR: LATER, AS CEO, PLATT DROVE HEWLETT-PACKARD
TO BE MORE ACCOMODATING TO THE FAMILY NEEDS OF ITS EMPLOYEES, ESPECIALLY
WORKING MOTHERS.
EMILY DUNCAN: We were losing women
at a rate higher than we wanted to. And as we looked into that issue
we came to understand that we would do a better job at keeping women
if we had more flexibility.
LEW PLATT: You know theres a war
underway for talent and uh, you just simply cant confine yourself
to half of the population. And so we just decided we needed to be
a whole lot more flexible in order to provide an environment where
these women could meet their family responsibilities, also meet
their work responsibilities.
HEDRICK SMITH: Whats your response
to the reaction of managers who say, Look, we gotta get product
out, we got timetables, we got deadlines, we have to serve the bottom
line, yes its a nice idea to be flexible, yes work-life is
a nice idea, but basically thats soft stuff, thats touchy
feely stuff.
LEW PLATT: Well my response was pretty
strong. Uh, and generally speaking I said, Well its
not gonna be optional here in the company.
EMILY DUNCAN: He was very passionate.
Very passionate, very committed and very supportive. And he was
willing to lead on the issue.
NARR: PLATTS STRATEGY MOVED WOMEN
INTO TOP POSITIONS...CARLY FIORINA ... HIS HANDPICKED SUCCESSOR
AS CEO
AND OTHER WOMEN ON THE COMPANYS EXECUTIVE COUNCIL.
SUSAN BOWICK: I think its tribute
to the fifteen years or so of hard work that a lot of women had
done as well as the environment that the senior managers in the
company had created. And it doesnt just happen overnight;
it doesnt happen by accident.
EMILY DUNCAN: Peoples choices
change in their career life. What one might need when you have two
small children at home may be very different than what you need
when your children are gone or if you have aging parents
Webcrawl: Escape the 9 to 5 grind
EMILY DUNCAN:
or if you decide
you want to take a sabbatical and go back to school. So at different
phases of your career life, your needs change. And as an organization
we want to have the flexibility to address those.
Dip To Black
Morning exterior, then into the house with Shelly Smith & husband
Neal & kids, getting ready in the morning
Shelly Smith: Mmmm, good morning.
Are you done, are you done or do you want some milk? Oh boy!
Neal: Were gonna wait just
a few minutes for Mom.
Shelly Smith: Okay, ready to go.
NARR: MORNING IN NORTHERN CALIFORNIA.
Neal: Okay, see you later.
Shelly Smith: Bye-bye!
NARR: AND WITH TWO SMALL CHILDREN
EVERY
MOMENT COUNTS
SHELLY SMITH: So thats, I guess,
when th- my stress level goes up.
Shelly Smith with kids going to daycare.
NARR: SHELLY SMITH IS IN THE FAST LANE.
SHELLY SMITH: You know, theres
just not enough time to do it all. You know, I have an 8:30 phone
call that Ive got to start making from my car and its now
8:25 and Im still in the daycare center trying to drop my
child off and he doesnt want to be dropped off.
Shelly Smith: Have a good day!
SHELLY SMITH: And youre thinking
Im not going to make it.
NARR: RIGHT FROM DAYCARE ... TO THE
OFFICE ON WHEELS.
Shelly Smith on phone in her car: first skipped message
URGENT.
NARR: SHELLY IS A HIGH POWERED MARKETING
MANAGER, OVERSEEING HEWLETT-PACKARDS RELATIONSHIPS WITH ITS
BUSINESS PARTNERS.
Shelly Smith: Hi Joe and Rob,
this is Shelly Smith calling
SHELLY SMITH: Since Ive been
a child Ive always viewed success as being equated to what
you do, and not necessarily you know, who you are but what youre
doing.
NARR: IN THIS PRESSURE COOKER MARKET,
SUCCESS CAN REQUIRE A 70 OR 80-HOUR WORK WEEK.
Shelly Smith: Ill leave
them a quick voicemail right now
Shelly Smith at home with kids
NARR: BUT SHELLY DOESNT WANT
TO WORK 70 OR 80 HOURS A WEEK ...
Shelly Smith with Kelby on her lap.
Shelly Smith: No, Yeah.
NARR: FEARING SHELL MISS OUT
ON THE PRECIOUS EARLY YEARS OF HER CHILDREN.
Shelly Smith with Weston at night, getting ready for bed
NARR: SO SEVEN YEARS AGO, EVEN BEFORE
HER SONS WERE BORN, SHELLY PROPOSED SHARING HER JOB SO SHE COULD
CUT BACK HER HOURS.
Exterior Hewlett-Packard
NARR:
HEWLETT-PACKARD AGREED
Sound up of Suzanne Thomas leading a meeting with Shelly Smith
and others.
Suzanne Thomas: And what are
the functions that happen in these areas?
NARR: FOR THE PAST THREE YEARS, SUZANNE
THOMAS HAS BEEN SHELLYS JOB SHARE PARTNER.
Suzanne Thomas: Are we looking
at the market in as creative and imaginative and a unique way as
we should be in order
NARR: SHELLY AND SUZANNE HAVE MOVED
UP THE CORPORATE LADDER TOGETHER
WHILE EACH OF THEM HAS HAD
ANOTHER CHILD... .SO HOW DOES IT WORK?
Hedrick Smith talks with Shelly Smith and Suzanne Thomas
SUZANNE THOMAS: In many aspects a job
share is like a marriage. It is like being in a marriage.
SHELLY SMITH: You really have to trust
the other person. Um, you have to feel comfortable that on the day
that youre not in the office that uh, the other, the partner
is taking care of it.
SUZANNE THOMAS: We have very dynamic
jobs and it changes day to day very much.
NARR: EACH WORKS THREE VERY LONG DAYS
A WEEK, TEN TO 14 HOURS A DAY. ONE TAKES THE FIRST HALF OF THE WEEK,
THE OTHER TAKES THE SECOND HALF. THEY OVERLAP ON WEDNESDAYS.
HEDRICK SMITH: So Monday morning, Shelly,
you start a job, set the priorities and by the end of the week,
events change, Suzannes come in, things are different. What
were you saying, how does that leave you feeling?
SHELLY SMITH: That, that makes me feel
fine because when I get in on Monday and shes explained to
me, Heres what happened, heres what came up,
Im in agreement with her on, Yes, thats exactly
how I would have handled it. I would have made sure that that
was first priority.
NARR: TRUST IN EACH OTHER AND A STEADY
STREAM OF PHONE CALLS AND E-MAILS, SOMETIMES ON WEEKENDS, ARE THE
KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL JOB SHARE.
SHELLY SMITH: Its not two part-time
jobs at all. It is one job that you share.
SUZANNE THOMAS: You share the job completely.
SHELLY SMITH: Whats really important,
we feel is, if youre managing people, you really have to have
that consistency across so they can (Suzanne Thomas: Transparency)
come to whoever they want to come to, to answer those questions.
NARR: REPORTING TO TWO BOSSES COULD
BE A PROBLEM FOR THEIR SUBORDINATES. MARKUS BERBER WORRIED ABOUT
THAT.
Markus Berber walks down the hall with Suzanne Thomas
MARKUS BERBER: I initially thought,
you know what, Im not sure this is going to work out from
a business perspective. Im not sure I want to assoc
want to be associated with that.
NARR: IN TIME, MARKUS CHANGED HIS MIND
MARKUS BERBER: Ive learned more
than, um reporting only to one manager because you have different
perspectives. You have much more sound decisions therefore and that
helps everybody.
Two shot of Hedrick Smith and Gina Cassinelli from above.
NARR: GINA CASSINELLI, SHELLY AND SUZANNES
SUPERVISOR, SEES THEIR JOB SHARE AS SEAMLESS.
GINA CASSINELLI: I dont at all,
say Okay Suzanne, you havent been here at the beginning
of part of the week, let me tell you where Shelly and I are on this.
Um, I assume thats being done and you know what, it is being
done. And so I dont think about that at all.
Gina Cassinelli, Shelly Smith and Suzanne Thomas in a meeting
Gina Cassinelli: And so why dont
you just take a look at, at that line
GINA CASSINELLI: So, frankly I pick
up where I leave off with one and I continue on.
Shelly Smith: Here I would say,
VP and Director and level.
Suzanne Thomas: And then Marketing
Alliance Manager.
GINA CASSINELLI: I get more out of
that position having two heads there, uh, than I would having a
single person there. Uh, and so its, its, its,
a win for them, its a win for me. I think its a win
for the company.
NARR: NO QUESTION THE COMPANY WINS,
EVEN PAYING HANDSOME SIX FIGURE SALARIES TO EACH WOMAN. BUT FOR
THEM, THERES A CATCH. ALTHOUGH THE JOB SHARE GIVES THEM EACH
TWO DAYS OFF, THEY STILL PUT IN LOTS OF OVERTIME.
HEDRICK SMITH: How many hours a week
do you figure, totally, the two of you are putting in? Eighty, ninety?
SHELLY SMITH: I would say, on average,
seventy to eighty (Suzanne Thomas: Mm,
huh)
HEDRICK SMITH: And youre doing
well when you keep it to seventy or eighty?
SHELLY SMITH: Thats
.thats
.thats
right.
SUZANNE THOMAS: Never goes lower (laughs).
It can get to ninety hours a week. But everybody in Silicon Valley
does that at times; thats not unique to us.
Neal taking care of the kids. Weston gives Neal phone
Weston: Hi, its for you.
Neal: Who is it?
Weston: Its mommy.
Neal: Ahh, okay
NARR: ONE NIGHT A WEEK, SHELLYS
HUSBAND NEAL, WHOS A MANAGER OF A COMMERCIAL PLANT NURSERY,
TENDS THE KIDS
AND TWO NIGHTS, A BABYSITTER COMES IN. TONIGHT,
NEAL IS ON HIS OWN WITH WESTON AND KELBY.
Neal and Weston reading a book
Neal: And where is the fairy
god-cow?
Weston: Over there, dad!
Neal: Yes
NEAL: It is a great opportunity to
spend the time with the kids but its also a, a stretch sometimes
as well.
Neal reading with Weston
Weston: Owww
NARR: THIS IS WHAT SHELLY STILL MISSES
EVENINGS AT HOME.
Neal: Cmon up here
SHELLY SMITH: I would say, 70% of the
time I do not see my kids on the three days that I work in the evenings.
Theyre usually in bed before I get home, or just going to
bed.
Neal getting Kelby dressed for bed
Neal: Both hands up
SHELLY SMITH: Every once in a while
I get a little bit frustrated where Ill sit there and go,
you know, gosh darn it, this isnt that important. Why am I
still here at work. Why dont I just get home, get to the kids.
NEAL: I try and leave my work at work.
And, in fact, I think with the kids uh, it, it really, it forces
me to just break from work and, and come home with the kids. And
by the time Im ready for bed, all the, the worries and the
stress of work are no longer in my mind.
NARR: NEAL CAN WALK AWAY FROM HIS JOB
AT REGULAR HOURS.
Shelly Smith on phone in car
Shelly Smith: Um, let me know
if thats okay with you
NARR: BUT SHELLY HAS TROUBLE LETTING
GO OF UNFINISHED BUSINESS. SHE FEELS THE TUG OF CAREER AND AMBITION.
Shelly: Thanks a lot, bye
SHELLY SMITH: Its really my issue,
I think. Because I couldve just, you know, said enoughs
enough and then, and then gotten out of work. And I didnt,
you know. I just kept, you know, Ill do that extra e-mail
and Ill do this extra whatever.
HEDRICK SMITH: Why not step off the
fast track and work say 20 hours a week for a while and then get
back on the fast track?
SHELLY SMITH: I think if I stepped off
the fast track um, and, and waited you know five years or six years
it would be hard for me personally to get, probably get back into
it.
Shelly Smith with kids on the beach.
Shelly Smith: Okay, This way.
NARR: SHELLY USES HER DAYS OFF TO CATCH
UP ON SHOPPING AND HOUSEHOLD CHORES. BUT EVERY ONCE IN AWHILE, SHE
GETS A MOMENT ON THE BEACH.
NEAL: I think its worked out
very well for her. Uh, you know, shes the kind of person I
think that would go crazy if she was at home, uh with the kids.
On the other hand, she loves the kids dearly, and so in that sense
I think, its, its worked out as a very good balance
for her.
Shelly offers Weston a bagel.
Shelly: kay which one do
you want, the top or bottom?
Weston: Which ones the biggest?
NARR: WHAT GETS LOST FOR SHELLY AND
NEAL IS TIME TOGETHER
JUST TO WATCH THE SUN GO DOWN.
SHELLY SMITH: And its usually
right toward the end of the day that you sort of look out the window
and go oh, yeah there is this you know, beautiful view here and,
and we would definitely like to be able to spend more time to just
watch it -but were expecting well do that when our kids
are little older. Thats what I keep saying. When theyre
18, honey, well get to be able to do all this other stuff.
PHILIP MIRVIS: Youre hoisted on
your own petard. Youve created a life style that demands a
lot of income. Uh, you like earning a big salary and youd
like also to have more balance and more time with your kids and
so on and its both a, a juggling act in spirit that often
requires you to make trade-offs. And executives are really torn
to say am I willing to step back a little bit. Am I willing to,
uh, scale back my own financial aspirations to be with my kids which
I say I love or am I going to consistently try to do both and uh,
do both less than perfectly.
Exterior Collins house
Shaun Collins and Michael Collins
Shaun Collins: Thats a
jeep, you wanna play? You wanna play?
NARR: AT HEWLETT-PACKARD, THANKS TO
LEW PLATT, YOU CAN SCALE BACK AND STILL PURSUE AN ACTIVE CAREER.
PROJECT MANAGER SHAUN COLLINS FOR EXAMPLE, HAS DECIDED TO STEP OFF
THE FAST TRACK.
SHAUN COLLINS: Priority number one
for me now -- and for always -- is my family.
Shaun Collins: Here we are, train!
NARR: SHAUNS JOB DESIGNING COMPUTER
APPLICATIONS NORMALLY COMMANDS ABOUT $75,000 A YEAR
BUT HE
IS SACRIFICING HIGHER PAY AND CAREER ADVANCEMENT TO SPEND MORE TIME
WITH HIS WIFE KARYN AND SON, MIKEY.
SHAUN COLLINS: Every day is almost
an exponential learning experience for Mikey. He learns new words
'n' gestures 'n' what not.
SHAUN COLLINS: And I wanna be a part
of that. I wanna be a part of my son's growing up, and that's what's
really important to me.
Shaun Collins reads to Michael Collins:
Whats the elephant say?
NARR: SHAUN WORKS FROM HOME MORNINGS
AND EVENINGS, AND SPENDS JUST A FEW HOURS EACH AFTERNOON IN THE
OFFICE.
SHAUN COLLINS: I don't feel ambitious
like I wanna become some kinda high-level manager right now. That's
not important to me right now
whats important to me is
doing my job well and, and taking care of my family. These, these
are the decisions Ive made.
NARR: SHAUNS PROJECT TEAM IS
VIRTUAL WHICH MEANS THAT THEY LIVE IN DIFFERENT
CITIES AND THEIR CUSTOMERS ARE SPREAD ALL OVER THE GLOBE. SO THEY
MEET ON THE INTERNET.
SHAUN COLLINS: I have to get up at
six in the morning because there's a nine o'clock meeting in Atlanta.
Or, maybe I need to talk to somebody in Germany, so I have to be
up late. Or, maybe there's somebody in Singapore I need to talk
to. The, the hours 'n' stuff are becoming more and more blurred.
Shaun Collins and Michael Collins eating in kitchen
NARR: SHAUN HAS HIS WORK AND FAMILY
LIFE WELL INTEGRATED. SOMETIMES, WHEN HE GETS A BREAK, HE PLAYS
WITH SON MIKEY
.
Sound up Shaun Collins and Michael Collins
Shaun Collins: You happy?
NARR: ANOTHER ADVANTAGE OF BEING ON
A VIRTUAL TEAM IS THAT NO ONE CAN SEE YOU WHEN YOU ARRIVE EARLY
FOR A MEETING.
Shaun Collins playing guitar next to his computer
SHAUN COLLINS: This is certainly something
you can't do at work -- is -- (chuckling) -- pick up your guitar,
'cause people give you funny looks, and they're trying to work and
it would be a distraction. But here, you put on the "mute"
button. Nobody knows you're playing guitar -- unless they wanna
hear your music. Then they'll say, "Hey, you're playin' guitar?"
"Yeah. You wanna hear some before everybody joins on?"
"Yeah. Come on," you know. We don't have any sing-alongs
or anything like that. We haven't gotten that sophisticated. (chuckling)
Karyn Collins taking Michael Collins out of swing
Karyn Collins: Ok, lets push
it up higher, one, two three
NARR: BUT SHAUNS WIFE, KARYN,
HAS A HARDER TIME JUGGLING WORK AND FAMILY. SHES ALSO AN HP
PROJECT MANAGER.
KARYN COLLINS: I never really thought
that I was gonna wanna do part-time.
Karyn Collins walking Michael Collins along wall
Karyn Collins: Alright, up, up
KARYN COLLINS: But as soon as I had
Michael, I knew that I wanted to be able to spend time with him.
Karyn Collins walking Michael Collins along wall, away from camera
Karyn Collins: You gonna be a
circus performer when you grow up?
Michael Collins: No
Karyn Collins: No? (laughing)
NARR: SO ONCE MICHAEL WAS BORN, SHE
ASKED TO WORK HALF-TIME. BUT KARYNS MANAGERS WANTED HER TO
PUT IN MORE HOURS.
KARYN COLLINS: They basically determined
that before they were gonna be able to give me a challenging project
to work on -- which is something that I felt I deserved um,
they, needed me to work 30 hours instead of 20.
Karyn Collins putting Michael Collins into car
Karyn Collins: Alright, See you
later.
Shaun Collins: Bye
Karyn Collins and Shaun Collins kiss goodbye
NARR: KARYN AGREED RELUCTANTLY. AND
ON HER THREE DAYS IN THE OFFICE, SHE FEELS THE STRESS OF SAYING
GOODBYE TO MIKEY AT DAY CARE.
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Karyn Collins gets Michael Collins out of car and leads him into
the day care center
Karyn Collins: Okay, out we go
KARYN COLLINS: It comes up a little
bit as I'm dropping Mikey off at day care, because I see him playing
with a bunch of different kids, and he's having a lot of fun. And
then he sees me leave, and sometimes he's really upset and crying.
Uh, other times he doesnt seem to mind if I leave, but Id
like to stay and watch.
Karyn Collins works on computer at home
NARR: KARYN IS CONFLICTED. LIKE MANY
WORKING PARENTS, SHES RELUCTANT TO USE HER FAMILY RESPONSIBILITIES
AS AN EXCUSE.
KARYN COLLINS: One of the hardest parts
for me is having to explain to people what my work environment is
so that they understand why I don't wanna attend a phone conference
at ten o'clock in the morning on Wednesday or Thursday.
HEDRICK SMITH: Because peers don't understand?
KARYN COLLINS: I've found that they
actually do understand, but there's something in me
I guess
I don't like to have to have people plan around my schedule. I'd
rather be able to say, "Sure, I'll do it whenever you want."
NARR: FOR KARYN AND SHAUN, ONE HUGE
SOURCE OF STRESS IS MONEY. HOUSING PRICES IN THE SAN FRANCISCO BAY
AREA ARE AMONG THE HIGHEST IN THE COUNTRY.
KARYN COLLINS: It -- it's definitely
a squeeze. There are times when I almost wish I didn't have to work
at all. But you just have to do that if you're gonna live in the
Bay Area. Its just a fact of life.
Exteriors Collins house, guitar in background
NARR: JUST DAYS AFTER OUR INTERVIEW
WITH KARYN AND SHAUN, THEY DECIDED TO EASE THE ECONOMIC SQUEEZE.
THEYVE PUT THEIR HOUSE UP FOR SALE AND PLAN TO MOVE
TO A LESS PRICEY COMMUNITY
Karyn Collins singing to Michael Collins; Shaun Collins playing
guitar
Karyn Collins: (singing)Twinkle,
twinkle, little star how I wonder what you are
.
NARR: KARYN HOPES SHE CAN CUT BACK
HER HOURS AND HAVE MORE FAMILY TIME.
KARYN COLLINS: Were going to
have choices to be able to take time off so that um, since Shaun
and I want to have another child I could take a year off and spend
time raising another child.
Karyn Collins: (singing)
I
wonder what you are
SHAUN COLLINS: You know youre
in trouble when your job gets in the way of your own life, knowing
who you are and what makes you happy.
Michael Collins: Yeah
Karen Collins: (laughing) Yeah
Shaun Collins: (laughing) Yeahhhh
JOAN WILLIAMS: If you look at the statistics
men as a group are doing more for the family than their fathers
did. After all their fathers did virtually nothing. Uh, women as
a group are doing somewhat less than their mothers did. After all
their mothers were not, uh, in the work force. And so often, men
as a group feel great. They feel like theyre doing a great
job and women feel just terrible.
ANN CRITTENDEN: Mothers particularly,
as distinguished from women dont yet feel entitled. They dont
really feel they deserve a lot of support. They are not yet stepping
forward and saying, because Im a mother and because we need
to make a big investment in children, I deserve some support.
HEDRICK SMITH: So what youre really
saying is the problem isnt so much women going to work but
parents, especially mothers, going to work.
ANN CRITTENDEN: Women per se have had
the door opened. And I think women have made enormous strides, enormous
progress. And there is very little at least in the earlier stages
of ones career, you really dont run into the old fashioned
obstacles women used to face. But when you have a child thats
when you hit it. You pay a huge economic price, in lost wages, in
lack of promotion opportunities and yet having to turn down opportunities
right and left. And in also not being able to have the amount of
time you really need to have with your children.
Hewlett-Packard Exterior
Engineers working over computers.
Engineer: And theres this
little chip, uh, down low
NARR: ITS DOWN IN THE TRENCHES
WHERE THAT HITS HARDEST AND WHERE ITS OFTEN DIFFICULT TO PRACTICE
FAMILY FRIENDLY POLICIES ... ESPECIALLY WHEN THE JOB REQUIRES EMPLOYEES
TO WORK ON SITE.
Charmaine Crumer on service call
Charmaine Crumer: Hi, Im
here to do a service call
NARR: ...LIKE COMPUTER SERVICE ENGINEERS
THE 9-1-1 EMERGENCY RESPONSE MEDICS FOR SICK AND CRASHING COMPUTERS.
Charmaine Crumer on a call, working on a computer
NARR: CHARMAINE CRUMER FOR EXAMPLE.
FOR CHARMAINE, THE UNPREDICTABLE BREAKDOWNS OF COMPUTERS,
Charmaine Crumer plays with Caitlyn Crumer
Caitlyn Crumer: Three four...
NARR:
PLAY HAVOC...
Charmaine Crumer: You woke up
daddy!
Caitlyn Crumer: Time to go back
to bed again!
NARR; WITH HAVING A NORMAL LIFE.
CHARMAINE
AND HER HUSBAND CLARK, WHO TRAVELS A LOT, STRUGGLE TO FIND TIME
TO RAISE THEIR DAUGHTERS, CAREN AND CAITLYN.
Caren Crumer and Clark Crumer playing video games
Caren Crumer I killed you
Clark Crumer: Oooh, that was mean
CHARMAINE CRUMER: For me I feel its
conflict, its a struggle.
Charmaine Crumer: Youre
safe, youre lucky!
CHARMAINE CRUMER: Always between work
and home, I feel like I have to choose.
Response Center
Man #1: Hewlett-Packard Customer
Support, this is Chris, how may I help you?
Man #2: System down, but they
need a LAN card.
Woman: Cant you find me
somebody?
Exterior, Crumer house
Charmaine Crumer outside waving at daughter rides on bike, gets
beeped
Charmaine Crumer: Caitlyn, come
back, mommys gotta go to work
CHARMAINE CRUMER: We get calls in ...
Theyre asking for people to help out
Charmaine Crumer on phone
Charmaine Crumer: Yeah, hi, I
just got paged on a call
CHARMAINE CRUMER: And, Im torn
between whether am I going to be a team player or am I going to
be a mother?
Charmaine Crumer helps Caitlyn Crumer take off bike helmet
NARR: CHARMAINE MAKES ABOUT $60,000
A YEAR. BECAUSE HER WORK HOURS ARE SO UNPREDICTABLE, SHE NEEDS A
FULLTIME LIVE-IN NANNY.
Charmaine Crumer on service call
CHARMAINE CRUMER: If I get a late call,
Ill usually, um, I can be home by seven, eight o'clock. If
things start to go bad, I could be home as late as 2 a.m. or 3am.
Hedrick Smith talks with Charmaine Crumer
CHARMAINE CRUMER: That's the hardest
thing -- when you walk in your house and your kids are asleep. You
say, "I haven't spent" -- "I haven't spent any time
with 'em. They're growin' up with a nanny, but, that's not their
mother.
Charmaine Crumer on service call
CHARMAINE CRUMER: See, I like what
I do. I like that pressure. I like coming out, being -- being the
-- the hero, you know - when you, when you complete a job. I, you
know, you -- you get that -- that high. But, is it worth it for
the family? Well, that's a different question. It's -- no, it's
not.
Clark Crumer in Atlanta on business
Clark Crumer: Jeez, yeah, I gotta
totally reconnect
NARR: CHARMAINES HUSBAND CLARK
TRAVELS ALL OVER AMERICA, INSTALLING SOFTWARE FOR HEWLETT-PACKARDS
CORPORATE CUSTOMERS.
HES OUT OF TOWN MOST WEEKS, FROM
MONDAY THROUGH FRIDAY. ...HAVING PIZZA DINNERS IN HIS HOTEL ROOM
Clark Crumer on cell phone in hotel room
Clark Crumer: Hi honey, how you
doing?
NARR: ... ALONE.
Intercut, Clark Crumer in hotel room and Charmaine Crumer eating
dinner with kids
CHARMAINE CRUMER: It's constantly telling
the kids that, you know, "Mom and Dad just have to do this."
"Dad has to be away." But -- but in the back of your mind,
you're thinking, "Well, does he have to be away?" "Do
I really have to do this?"
CLARK CRUMER: I think most families
in America today are trying to spend the quality time, with their
family, trying to improve their lifestyle, trying to have that --
that house, that American dream.
Kids outside on scooters, bikes
Charmaine Crumer: Careful
CLARK CRUMER: And that, that is the
struggle. That is what we're all trying to a- -- achieve -- that
golden ring.
NARR: WHAT KEEPS CLOUDING OVER THAT
DREAM, FOR THE CRUMERS AND OTHERS IN CUSTOMER SERVICE IS A JOB ROTATION
THAT HP CALLS DUTY WEEK
THE ONE WEEK A MONTH WHEN CHARMAINE
IS ON CALL 24 HOURS A DAY
Still of DUTY WEEK CONTACT LIST
Charmaine Crumer on service call
NARR:
AND EVERYONE IS COMPLAINING
ABOUT IT.
Hedrick Smith talks to Charmaine Crumer, Larry Rogers and Bill
Meyer at HP
LARRY ROGERS: The pressure from customers
is incredible, their, all their business, is online, its real
time, when they have problems, they want a response right now, so
my customers expect me to be on site within 2 hours and they expect
restoration of their system within 4 to 6 hours.
HEDRICK SMITH: Whats this corporate
pressure, this competitive pressure, do to your family life?
LARRY ROGERS: (chuckling) Well, its
terrible. You know, when a, when a pager goes off, Ive gotta
drop what Im doing, immediately respond to the pager
BILL MEYER: Its, its a real
tug-a-war, am I gonna be able to pick up my son on time from day
care? Because if I do not pick him up on time from day care, it
costs us a financial penalty, for not picking him up on time.
Hedrick Smith talks with Barbara Miller
BARBARA MILLER: We no longer have the
Ozzie-'n'-Harriet type family, where there's somebody staying at
home on a snow day to take care of kids. But senior management that's
saying, "We just need to pump out productivity," is really
being short-sighted, because the realities that people are dealing
with on a day-to-day basis have got to be taken into consideration.
Barbara Miller talking to workshop
NARR: BARBARA MILLER IS A WORK-LIFE
TROUBLE SHOOTER.
BARBARA MILLER: So I dont want
you to be burdened by old expectations, by old assumptions,
NARR: MORALE IS LOW, ATTRITION IS HIGH,
AND HEWLETT-PACKARD IS WORRIED.
Charmaine Crumer: My husband
and I both work for Hewlett-Packard
NARR: SO THE COMPANY SENT CHARMAINE,
OTHER CUSTOMER SERVICE ENGINEERS AND THEIR SUPERVISORS
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NARR:
TO A WORKSHOP RUN BY BARBARA
MILLER.
Barbara Miller: What I want you
to do is to begin to think out of the box.
Hedrick Smith talks with Barbara Miller
BARBARA MILLER: So the whole intent
here is to give them permission to challenge the routine ways that
they have developed working.
Charlotte Gattenby: I think my
biggest work-life challenge is
NARR: CHARLOTTE GATTENBY, THE MANAGER
AND SINGLE MOM WHOM WE MET EARLIER ADMITS HER PROBLEMS.
Charlotte Gattenby in workshop
Charlotte Gattenby: My calendar
takes, it manages me and not me managing my calendar.
NARR: MANAGEMENT WANTS BOTTOM-UP SOLUTIONS
AND
THE ENGINEERS, BURNED OUT FROM OPERATING LIKE LONE RANGERS, MUST
LEARN TO RELY MORE ON EACH OTHER.
CHARLOTTE GATTENBY: Ive had some
engineers didnt ask for help in a timely manner. They knew
the resources were there, but its always like, well, just
one more chance I know I can get it.
NARR: CHARMAINE CRUMERS GROUP
DECIDES THAT BETTER TEAMWORK WOULD HELP THEM HANDLE EMERGENCY CALLS.
CHARMAINE CRUMER:
Can you take
Monday through Friday, I'll take Saturday and Sunday? And then when
your Duty comes along, I'll take the Monday through Friday.
LARRY ROGERS: And at least at least
at this level, the team level, you know, we can, we can grab our
manager and say lets, lets do something different like
that.
BILL MEYER: I can form a partnership
with you and say look, I, Im going to be on a, you know, a
date with my wife on such and such a day, will you please back me
up?
NARR: BUT THE ENGINEERS SEE THEY CANNOT
SOLVE ALL THE PROBLEMS. THEY TURN TO MANAGEMENT FOR HELP.
CHARMAINE CRUMER: I, I talked to my
manager...and the only response I got was, duty is an unfortunate
thing with this job. ...I mean, its unfortunate, but there
is something we can about it. You know, theres gotta be something
we can do about it.
NARR: THEY PROPOSE HIRING MORE ENGINEERS,
BUT WITH THE SHARP DOWNTURN IN HIGH TECH, THE TOP BRASS TELLS THE
GROUP TO WORK OUT SOLUTIONS THEMSELVES - COST-FREE.
JOAN WILLIAMS: And it shouldnt
be up to individual workers to figure out that staffing solution.
This is a business issue. If they continue to staff duty week requiring
that much out of people indiv--, peoples individual lives,
whats the result going to be? Very high attrition, very high
rates of stress related diseases. This isnt a good business
practice.
PHILIP MIRVIS: I dont know any
company thats gone bankrupt, uh, because theyve been
responsive to uh, their employees as workers and as parents. I havent
seen not one thats gone bankrupt because they treated their
employees too well.
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Coping on the Front Line
STANDUP:
AS WEVE SEEN, THE BATTLE TO HANG ONTO TALENTED MANAGERS AND
PROFESSIONALS PUSHES A COMPANY LIKE HEWLETT-PACKARD TO LET ITS STARS
WORK WHEN AND WHERE THEY WANT
JUST SO LONG AS THE JOB GETS
DONE.
BUT WHAT ABOUT FRONT-LINE WORKERS WHOSE JOBS ARE LESS PORTABLE
AND LESS HIGH PROFILE? HOW MANY COMPANIES TRY TO ACCOMMODATE THE
PERSONAL NEEDS OF PRODUCTION WORKERS? AND JUST HOW FLEXIBLE CAN
YOU BE WITH BLUE COLLAR EMPLOYEES WHOSE JOBS TIE THEM TO MACHINES
AND ASSEMBLY LINES?
Dave Tresham walking down to the beach with his children. Theyre
going fishing.
Dave Tresham: Lets go.
Well make it.
NARR: ITS MONDAY MORNING AND
DAVE TRESHAM IS GOING FISHING
WITH HIS KIDS.
IN FACT,
YOU CAN FIND THEM HERE MOST MORNINGS.
Dave Tresham pushing son in stroller with daughter piggyback.
Dave Tresham: You guys wanna
make the birds fly? (children yell out to birds)
NARR: DAVE ISNT PLAYING HOOKEY.
HE WORKS FULL-TIME, JUST NOT DAYTIME.
Fischer Tresham throws rocks into water and Alycia Tresham splashing
in water
DAVE TRESHAM: And they just love to
be outside. Fischer will, hell, hell throw a thousand
rocks in the river, so, hes, it's the time of his life right
there.
Dave Tresham and Fischer Tresham getting worms for bait
Dave Tresham: pull that one out
Fischer Tresham: This one?
Dave Tresham: Yeah hes a
big one. Got to pull him out. Whoa (laughter)
HEDRICK SMITH: Was your dad as much
involved in bringing you up not just spending time with you
but in bringing you up, as you are with your kids?
DAVE TRESHAM: My father was there, um,
after work. Um, he went to the sports with us, and he spent a lotta
time with us.
Dave Tresham: Waaay out there.
DAVE TRESHAM: But spending time with
the kids all day? No, not too often. It's uh, quite a bit different
than when I grew up.
Nancy Tresham goes into her office building
NARR: NANCY TRESHAM WORKS THE DAY SHIFT
AS A CORPORATE TRAVEL AGENT. WHEN SHE GETS HOME
DAVE LEAVES
FOR HIS JOB AT HEWLETT-PACKARDS COMPUTER ASSEMBLY PLANT IN
ROSEVILLE, CALIFORNIA, NEAR SACRAMENTO.
Sign for Hewlett-Packard. Car entering parking lot.
NANCY TRESHAM: So he's single mom during
the day and I'm single mom during at night.
Dave Tresham at work assembling computer.
NANCY TRESHAM: Dave's had numerous
work schedules. We've tried both of us working 8 to 5. Kids were
in day care all day. Financially, that gets to be quite costly.
Nancy Tresham playing with kids
NARR: COSTLY BECAUSE QUALITY DAYCARE
FOR TWO AVERAGES $1100 A MONTH, ALMOST ONE QUARTER OF THEIR TAKE
HOME PAY.
SO FOR FINANCIAL REASONS, THE TRESHAMS WORK OPPOSITE
SHIFTS.
NANCY TRESHAM: In the end, I really
feel positive and very happy that one of us gets to stay home with
the kids, and that they're not raised in a day care.
Dave Tresham gets kids ready to leave the house
Dave Tresham: You guys ready
to see, go see mom, go to Chuck E. Cheese?
NARR: ITS A DRASTIC SOLUTION
Dave Tresham drives kids in car, walking into restaurant
NARR: ....IT MEANS THEY HAVE VERY LITTLE
FAMILY TIME. SO AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK, THEY HAVE A FAMILY MEAL DURING
NANCYS LUNCH BREAK.
Family walks into Chuck E. Cheese. Eating with kids.
Nancy Tresham: Its not
big enough
Dave Tresham: Your bellys
not big enough. You didnt get enough to eat there.
NANCY TRESHAM: I think what we do
uh, having the kids stay at home with one parent full-time, basically
-- is kind of unusual.
Dave Tresham pushes kids on swings at playground
NARR: DAVE IS ONE OF A SMALL MINORITY
OF FATHERS WHO REARRANGE THEIR WORK TO STAY HOME WITH THEIR PRESCHOOL
KIDS DURING THE DAY.
Hewlett-Packard Assembly Plant.
NARR:
HE CAN DO THAT BECAUSE
HIS PLANT WILL ADJUST WORKERS SHIFTS OR START-AND-STOP TIMES
TO THEIR PERSONAL NEEDS.
THE PLANT CAN BE SO FLEXIBLE WITH
ITS 800 WORKERS BECAUSE IT HAS REPLACED THE OLD ASSEMBLY LINE WITH
WORKSTATIONS... WHERE EACH TECHNICIAN CAN BUILD A COMPUTER FROM
START TO FINISH INDIVIDUALLY.
Mike Nickey: Dave
Dave Tresham: Hi Mike
Mike Nickey: How you doin
today?
NARR:
MIKE NICKEY IS THE PLANTS
OPERATIONS MANAGER.
Dave Tresham at work on assembly plant floor.
MIKE NICKEY: They're responsible for
building that product totally and they're responsible for the quality
and the -- and the speed with which they build it.
HEDRICK SMITH: In terms of the production
process and people's personal needs, what does that mean, what's
the impact?
MIKE NICKEY: Well, it means that someone
who has an urgent, uh, childcare or medical emergency or needs to
go out in the middle of the day to go to school for a couple hours,
uh, we can accommodate that. Because they -- they just leave and
they're not interrupting a sequential production flow, um, like
they might be in some other designs of a production process.
Shots of plant
NARR: THAT MEANS WORKERS HAVE TO FILL
IN FOR EACH OTHER WHEN SOMEONE HAS AN EMERGENCY OR A FAMILY NEED...
SO THE PLANT CAN KEEP OPERATING EFFICIENTLY.
EILEEN APPELBAUM: Its really
rare to find any kind of assembly process whether its assembly
line or not where uh, managers will make it possible for people
to have the kind of flexibility that weve just seen at Hewlett-Packard
Mike Nickey: Hi Bev
Bev: Hi Mike, how
HEDRICK SMITH: Are there any downsides?
Are there any problems? You make it all sound like a dream world?
MIKE NICKEY: Well, I think, one of the
downsides uh, I think is, were in a very, very fiercely competitive
industry.
MIKE NICKEY: We have to prove every
day our right to stay in the business on the basis of cost, quality
and speed. And our people know that very well and most people want
to stay employed, they want to have a good job, they want some job
security
And we earn it every day.
Plant shots, Dave Tresham at work
NARR: IF ITS SO COMPETITIVE,
HOW CAN THE COMPANY AFFORD TO BE SO FLEXIBLE?
MIKE NICKEY: All of this uh, good stuff
doesnt come totally free and I think one of the things that
we expect is when we have reason to work on a weekend, we, and we
frequently do, we ask people to come in and work some overtime.
DAVE TRESHAM: As work requires it, I
can stay as late as possible. So now if it takes it, I would be
there til 1 or 2 in the morning, working with the third shift.
Yeah, and I do quite often go in on Saturdays.
Nancy Tresham walking down sidewalk alone.
NARR: FOR NANCY AND DAVE TRESHAM, HEWLETT-PACKARDS
WILLINGNESS TO LET DAVE WORK THE NIGHT SHIFT MAY HELP THEM FINANCIALLY,
BUT NIGHTS AND WEEKENDS AWAY TAKE A TOLL ON THEIR MARRIAGE.
NANCY TRESHAM: I just kinda miss having
Dave around. Thats, thats the hard part but uh, I think
in the end we look at it, and its worth it for the kids.
Dave Tresham on beach fishing.
DAVE TRESHAM: Our relationship has
struggled. And, uh, we've had some tough times. We both know that
its paying off, though.
ROBERT REICH: Were talking about
a large and growing percentage of people with small children, maybe
twenty, thirty percent of all of the people who have young kids
are doing some sort, some sort of split shifting because again they
cant get the childcare.
JOAN WILLIAMS: This tag-team solution
is very common and what it shows is that because there are so few
attractive alternatives Americans are very committed to taking care
of their own children, even if it means they lack sleep, they may
never see each other, but children come first.
ROBERT REICH: We are paying a big price
as a society. The American family is shrinking. People are putting
off marriage, putting off having kids, a lot of people are having
no kids at all. Its the demands of the new economy.
Dip to Black
Action Visuals inside plant - white-uniformed workers pouring chemicals,
working on assembly line
NARR: HALFWAY ACROSS THE COUNTRY, JUST
OUTSIDE CHICAGO, BAXTER INTERNATIONAL IS ONE OF AMERICAS LEADING
MAKERS OF HEALTHCARE PRODUCTS. THE COMPANY PIONEERED PLASTIC I-V
BAGS, WHICH IT NOW SUPPLIES TO HOSPITALS ALL OVER THE WORLD.
IT
ALSO USES BLOOD PLASMA TO DEVELOP CUTTING-EDGE MEDICATIONS.
JoAnne Pederson entering the security door
NARR: ON THE NIGHT SHIFT, JOANNE PEDERSON
HAS THE METICULOUS JOB OF TRACKING THOUSANDS OF BLOOD SAMPLES EACH
WEEK FOR QUALITY CONTROL.
JoAnne Pederson opening security door on lab
JOANNE PEDERSON: Im the one they
come to looking for results. If FDA comes into us and say, I
want bundle such, uh, bundle five from January, I better be
able to find bundle five from January when they come in to do their
audits.
JoAnne Pederson at work
NARR: WITH PEOPLES LIVES AT STAKE
JOANNE MUST KEEP PERFECT RECORDS OF EVERY BATCH OF BLOOD.
NORMALLY
THATS A FULL TIME JOB
BUT FOR THE PAST THREE MONTHS,
JOANNE HAS BEEN WORKING HALF TIME
SO SHE COULD TAKE CARE OF
HER MOM, WHO IS DYING OF CANCER
SHE IS THE FIRST PERSON HER
DAD WILL CALL IF HER MOM TAKES A TURN FOR THE WORSE.
JOANNE PEDERSON: I really do worry
about the phone ringing cause I know if that phone rings Im
outta here. And uh, when I go on breaks I forward it to somebody
whos gonna be at their desk or in their area so that I know
cause I never know when hes gonna call and let me know.
JoAnne Pederson in bedroom with mom:
Can you smile for me today? There you go.
NARR: WHEN SHES NOT AT WORK
JOANNE IS AT HER MOTHERS SIDE ALL DAY LONG, EVERY DAY.
JOANNE PEDERSON: You know, I know shes
going. I know there is nothing we can do there, but, at least lets
make her comfortable while shes here. And her, and in her
last days I want her to be as comfortable as possible. So
.
JoAnne Pederson gives her mother a sponge-bath
JoAnne Pederson: We doing okay?
Hmm?
JOANNE PEDERSON: It is very hard, its
very stressful. It is not just physically tiring, its mentally
tiring. Um, twenty four hours a day your mind is going as far as
what do I need to do for mom? What do I need to do?
You have to be strong for the rest of your family is what you
you
have to hold up and, cant let your guard down. Have to be
there for you, huh, dad?
CHESTER SOCHA: Yeah, well youre
there. You always, always was. Shes really doing a wonderful
job. I dont know what I would do without her. Shes been
taking care of everything else over here pretty well.
JoAnne Pederson and Hedrick Smith walking shots
NARR: JOANNE HAS TAKEN OVER HER MOTHERS
ROLE AS THE ROCK IN HER FAMILY. SHE KEEPS IN TOUCH WITH HER MOMS
DOCTORS
AND WATCHES OUT FOR HER DAD...
JOANNE PEDERSON: I wouldnt feel
comfortable if it was a stranger doing the things with my mom, taking
care of her. I feel better that its a family member.
HEDRICK SMITH: And hows your dad
doing?
JOANNE PEDERSON: My dad needs me. Even
if Mom was in a nursing home, Dad would still need me because hes
lived with this, hes been married to this lady for 51 years.
You know, its a big loss to know that someone is dying.
Karen Kirby at work
NARR: KAREN KIRBY IS JOANNES
BOSS
AND A VETERAN BAXTER EMPLOYEE WHO UNDERSTANDS THE GRUELING
DEMANDS OF TAKING CARE OF A SICK FAMILY MEMBER. WHEN KARENS
HUSBAND BATTLED NON-HODGKINS LYMPHOMA A FEW YEARS BACK, SHE LEARNED
THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING ABLE TO TAKE MEDICAL TIME-OFF.
KAREN KIRBY: I know from experience
that you cannot be 100 percent focused on your work if you are concerned
about a situation thats going on at home and you dont
feel like youve had an opportunity to really address those
issues.
Karen Kirby at work, then to JoAnne Pederson working.
NARR: UNDER BAXTERS FAMILY FRIENDLY
POLICIES, KAREN ARRANGED FOR JOANNE TO WORK HALF-DAYS
USUALLY
FROM 10 AT NIGHT TIL 2 A.M.
AND COUNT THE OTHER HALF DAY AS
EMERGENCY MEDICAL LEAVE OR VACATION TIME.
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NARR: FOR JOANNE, WORKING A FEW HOURS
EACH DAY IS CRITICAL FOR KEEPING HER BILLS PAID AND GETTING HER
MIND OFF HER MOTHERS ILLNESS
KAREN KIRBY: I think that were
starting to realize and understand that you cant get the best
from your people if, if you dont also recognize that they
are more than what they are when they are at work.
JoAnne Pederson with her mother: Ready
for your medicine? Huh?
HEDRICK SMITH: JoAnne, whats
the hardest time of day for you?
JOANNE PEDERSON: Actually, I think when
I leave her at night. Simply because normally, up until last night
she didnt, but up until that point when Id say, Im
going to work, Mom. Shed say, You gotta go to
work? And that, its just, you know it hits you in the
heart, it (sighs) um, and I always afraid when she says that that,
thats gonna be it. You know, that Im not going to see
her the next day.
JoAnne Pederson with her mother: Mom?
Im gonna go to work, Ill see you in the morning? kay
mom? Mom? See you in the morning. I love you. Okay? Love you. Night
dad. Ill see you tomorrow.
JoAnne Pederson exits house.
NARR: JOANNES MOTHER DIED TWO
DAYS AFTER OUR VISIT TO HER
HOUSE. JOANNE WAS ABLE TO BE AT HER SIDE.
KAREN KIRBY: You know during the last
few months I think that it was, it was very difficult for her. But
shes very strong and she, she did, she, she handles that the
same way that she handles everything else, and thats with,
with grace and with strength.
HEDRICK SMITH: And, I heard she got
a promotion while she was taking care of her mother.
KAREN KIRBY: The work that she did while
she was going through this was, was flawless. Shes still,
was the, the conscientious worker that shes always been. And,
when she was promoted it was because she deserved the promotion.
Harry Kraemer speaks to Baxter employees:
Good morning everyone. It is a pleasure to have a chance to
spend time again with everybody
NARR: BAXTER INTERNATIONALS FOCUS
ON WORK-LIFE POLICIES COMES FROM THE TOP
FROM CEO HARRY KRAEMER.
KRAEMER HAS MADE WORK-LIFE BALANCE THE CORPORATE MANTRA. MORE THAN
2,000 BAXTER EMPLOYEES WORK FLEXIBLE SCHEDULES OR AT HOME. AND MANAGERS
PROMOTIONS ARE LINKED TO HOW WELL THEY SUPPORT WORK-FAMILY BALANCE.
ITS JUST SMART BUSINESS, KRAEMER INSISTS, TO UNDERSTAND THAT
A WORKER IS MUCH MORE THAN HIS WORK.
HARRY KRAEMER: Obviously, if people
really feel that they can do a better job of balancing their work-family
responsibilities, the overall ability to attract people to the company
increases and the level of turnover decreases. Its a win-win
for everybody.
HEDRICK SMITH: If its a win-win
to have flexible work-family arrangements why arent more companies
doing it?
HARRY KRAEMER: I think people that have
tried it are people that have tried it but have then tried it fairly
superficially. I dont think many companies really understand
the value that it can have. I think many of them are really concerned
that if in fact they do do this maybe people will be less productive.
Maybe theyll be less focused on their job and I dont
think theyre looking at the full picture.
Steve Meyer at his desk, checking voice mail
NARR: ONE TOP EXECUTIVE WHO HAS TAKEN
ON BAXTERS MINDSET WITH A VENGEANCE IS CORPORATE TREASURER
STEVE MEYER.
Steve Meyer showing Hedrick Smith around the office
Steve Meyer: Regular schedule,
comes in a little bit late, some telecommuting
NARR: MORE THAN HALF OF HIS STAFF WORKS
FLEXIBLE SCHEDULES.
STEVE MEYER: I think I always considered
myself flexible. But honestly, when we had our first child, my wife
and I, um, I think it changed a lot. Because it became more concrete
and more real for me. I had some people working for me who noticed
and told me, Gee, youre going home earlier. (laughter)
And, at first, at first I was a little bit defensive. I said, Well
no, Im still getting my work done. And the learning
for me was watching people watch me. And they were actually taking
cues from me in what are the appropriate work hours.
HARRY KRAEMER: Steve is, in my mind
is a great example of flexibility. He is one of the guys that figured
out a long time ago that by creating that type of flexibility for
his team, he would have everybody in the company wanting to work
for him.
Marguerite Fernandez with Steve Meyer in office:
You know, another thing I wanted to cover with you is
NARR: MEYER WILL GO TO ALMOST ANY LENGTHS
TO HANG ONTO TALENT
GLOBAL FINANCE SPECIALIST MARGUERITE FERNANDEZ
TRIED TO RESIGN AFTER HER THIRD CHILD WAS BORN, TO SPEND MORE TIME
AT HOME.
Marguerite Fernandez with children at home, on the playground
NARR: MEYER TALKED FERNANDEZ INTO WORKING
FROM HOME JUST 22 HOURS A WEEK, DOING MAJOR FINANCIAL DEALS.
HEDRICK SMITH: So whats this
chart? Youre monitoring the markets, here on the laptop?
MARGUERITE FERNANDEZ: Yeah this is,
this is my, my favorite chart to, to keep current during the day.
HEDRICK SMITH: So youre buying
and selling, making decisions?
MARGUERITE FERNANDEZ: Right, right from
here. Um, usually wearing jeans or uh, (laughs) sweatpants. That
one commercial where you have someone who just loves working at
home and theyve got their, their bunny slippers on. Thats
how it works. Its actually kind of fun and you really feel
like you are really getting something accomplished. I mean, across
from here, the room over there is my daughters bedroom. And
shes sleeping there right now.
Steve Meyer at his desk
STEVE MEYER: When Marguerite was working
from home and we traded most of our messages through voice mail
it didnt make any difference to me whether she was at home
or at work, and it didnt make any difference what the hours
of the day were.
HEDRICK SMITH: What happened to old-fashioned
face time? Gotta be in the office so the boss sees you and
you can be there to get together?
STEVE MEYER: If you want to get the
best results, you have to have the best people. And once youve
resigned yourself to wanting to have the best people, you have to
be flexible. The best people are being sought after by all kinds
of companies. Pay is not the only thing, stock options and benefits
are not the only determinant. Being able to control their life style
and their work schedule is a big determinant in terms of where people
wanna work.
MARGUERITE FERNANDEZ: I think to the
extent that they are letting me do this, I am going to work extra
hard. Because I, I see the privilege of being able to be here when
my daughter wakes up from nap or when my son comes home from school.
So, they have me as a very interested employee, motivated employee,
um definitely thankful theyre letting me do this.
Marguerite Fernandez plays with her kids at home, daughter hands
her a ball
Marguerite Fernandez: Thank you!
NARRATOR: MARGUERITES TRANSACTIONS
FROM HOME WERE SO COST-EFFECTIVE THAT BAXTER GAVE HER A PROMOTION.
ROBERT REICH: Employers are gradually
getting the idea that they have to treat their professional workers
as assets to be developed rather than as costs to be cut. But they
havent yet understood that they need to apply the same principle
to their routine workers, their blue collar and pink collar workers.
Baxter Drug Delivery Plant
NARR: EVEN AT BAXTER, THERE ARE DIFFERENT
SCENARIOS FOR TOP PROFESSIONALS AND FRONT-LINE WORKERS. IT MAY BE
JUST 20 MILES FROM CORPORATE HEADQUARTERS TO BAXTERS DRUG
DELIVERY PLANT AT ROUND LAKE. BUT THEY ARE WORLDS APART IN HOW THEY
APPLY WORK-LIFE BALANCE.
Jim McMillan in the plant
NARR: FACING DAILY DEADLINES, PRODUCTION
SUPERVISOR JIM MCMILLAN HAS MUCH LESS OPPORTUNITY TO BE FLEXIBLE
WITH HIS WORKERS THAN STEVE MEYER.
JIM McMILLAN: We have product that
we start in the morning. We start to fill those bags at 7:30 and
weve got a program set up that |